Do we want to get married? As far as the authors take on the value that gay men place on education or personal growth - oh wait - neither topic is ever mentioned. Seventeen: Sadly, gay men are self-centered and narcissistic, so instead of talking about your abusive childhood upbringing and triumph over Legionnaires disease, read this piece over and over and out loud until I'm so happy I wet myself.
We are men with egos, and we strive to be the best at everything we do because it was something we learned as closeted children. Dating is hard, being in a couple is hard, but it shouldn't be this hard, right?
When you're having butt sex, there's always the slight possibility of a little shit, but this was literally a shit storm. Wanting to end this interaction on a peaceful note, I told him that while I respect his honesty, the thought of a man getting off to calling me racial slurs and performing violent sex acts on me was enough to make me want to commit murder.
If you like someone enough, open your mind to other possibilities.